Combat Coaching
While many approaches to coaching, personal development and professional growth take a smooth, slow changes, one step at a time approach – there just comes a time when you’ve got to make things happen.
Sympathetic emotions and empathetic words have a place in many situations. But if you’ve been too easy on yourself and your dreams keep slipping away – it may be time to get tough on yourself.
The human body and the human spirit can endure far more than we in our cozy western world even come close to. Incredible feats are accomplished by those who seem to have so many odds stacked against them already. (check out the ParaOlympics as an example)
Combat coaching is a more direct method to achieve what you want in life. Implementation of strict routines and tracking that get right at the heart of the issues you wish to change and improve.
Some times we need to get at the far opposite end of the see saw in order to balance ourselves out. If you have gone to the far end of the spectrum in your behaviors and habits, a period of time spent in the exact opposite behaviors will cause a balance to be created, a middle ground where you can be healthier and more effective.
If you think you’re tough enough – then Combat Coaching may be the approach for you.
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Organization/Stuff Management
Stuff – it fills our life and saps us of vital energy. It can be overwhelming and cause paralysis in our minds and our actions. We waste uncountable amount of time, energy and money due to the mess around us.
If getting a handle on your ‘stuff’ is a perpetual problem chances are it is holding you back in other areas of your life and probably causing pain in your relationships.
A sense of organization is an innate trait – some have it and others not.
Some folks were born with it and others need to learn it, or have a system to follow.
Without boasting and with gratitude to my upbringing (thanks mom) I have found my abilities, gifts and talents at organizing are good if not excellent. Personal studies in various methods have added to my arsenal of techniques and strategies for ‘getting it together’.
If you live within 45 miles of Madison Wisconsin and have need for a helping hand – we need to talk!
Whether it is a garage, home office, workbench or other areas of your male domain, getting things in order will give you a whole new perspective on life and possibilities.
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Manhood
Whether a man is married or single he needs to come to an understanding of who he is in the world, how he is wired and how to life true to his emotions, desires and responsibilities. Being anything less than who he was created to be takes away from the joy and success of all his endeavors and relationships
Men need respect. Just as women need emotional security, men need to know they are respected.
How we go about getting respect is where many of us really mess it up.
You can’t demand respect, that’s just fear. You can’t ask for respect, that’s pity.
Respect is earned over time and there is a price. But it is the best fee you will ever pay.
Marriage and the responsibilities that go with it are overwhelming. If done wrong it can be crushing and destructive. If done well it is the greatest pleasure and sense of fulfillment a person could ever experience.
If you have been faking your way through your role as a husband – let’s talk. This is too important for your life and to who you are as a person to just get by each day.
You are responsible for your wife, her happiness and the strength of your marriage – Get It Right!
What an awesome honor it is to raise children. Nowhere will you see the wonder of life more than through the eyes and heart of a child. Nowhere will you feel more important than in the arms and in the words of your child saying “I love you Daddy”.
And yet without help, guidance and instruction we can really mess up this responsibility. The consequences of faltering in this role as a Dad are very serious, both to our children and the whole family.
No where will you find greater rewards than being a great Dad. – Get It Right!
Read moreOrganization for Couples
If you are a partner in a relationship that shares living space than an added dimension/obstacle/advantage has been given to your organizational strategy.
Living with others requires patience, tolerance and understanding when it comes to the ‘stuff’ in our lives. Now we have to have patience, tolerance and understanding of someone else’s habits, messes and ‘stuff’ in addition to our own.
The first rule is a mantra which needs repeating over and over – “People are more important than things.”
Finding a place of compromise when it comes to “things” is as difficult as other compromises – and can sometimes be even more difficult since it traces back to childhood habits and emotional underpinnings.
A third set of eyes on the situation is often the best way to resolve difficulties and strategize methods and systems that satisfy everyones needs.
Are you newlyweds just figuring out life together or long time marrieds who still bicker over where things belong? Could the messes and disorganizations in your home be driving a wedge in your relationship?
Could Organization / Stuff Management be a good “couples therapy” for your marriage, your home, your life?
Let’s find out!
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